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Happy Delicious Travels with Four Fine Friends

Explore the booming Finger Lakes distillery scene with us! From maple-infused bourbon to whipped-vod
By Jim Moore January 30, 2026
Explore the booming Finger Lakes distillery scene with us! From maple-infused bourbon to whipped-vodka espresso martinis, we review the best rustic haunts and polished tasting rooms around the lakes.
Blackbeard's Ghost & Buried Gold: What Really Happened When Pirates Ruled the Outer Banks?
By Jim Moore January 17, 2026
Unraveling Outer Banks pirate lore! We explore Blackbeard's actual hideouts, debunk buried treasure myths, and uncover the surprising truths about female buccaneers and pirate codes.
Hatteras Island's Pamlico Sound sunsets are a daily masterpiece. We share top spots like Canadian Ho
By Jim Moore January 15, 2026
Hatteras Island's Pamlico Sound sunsets are a daily masterpiece. We share top spots like Canadian Hole and offer tips on catching the elusive "Green Flash," making for unforgettable evenings.
By Jim Moore January 10, 2026
Beyond the Roses: 5 Unforgettable Ways to Celebrate Valentine's Day in the Finger Lakes.
By Jim Moore January 7, 2026
Conquer the winter chill with the Seneca Sips & Suds Tasting Pass! Enjoy 50% off drinks at 31 wineries and breweries all January long while competing for fantastic local prizes.
Experience the rustic soul of Burdett at Solera Tap House. We explore their vibrant atmosphere, week
By Jim Moore January 5, 2026
Experience the rustic soul of Burdett at Solera Tap House. We explore their vibrant atmosphere, weekly events, and why their whipped vodka Espresso Martinis are a Finger Lakes essential.
From Babylonian Plows to Modern Goals: The 4,000-Year Evolution of the New Year’s Resolution.
By Jim Moore December 31, 2025
Explore the ancient origins of New Year’s Resolutions—from Babylonian debts to Roman gods—and learn modern, science-based strategies to make your 2026 goals finally stick for the long haul.
Island Soul: Discovering the Tri-Villages of Rodanthe, Waves, and Salvo
By Jim Moore December 28, 2025
Uncover the rugged charm of Rodanthe, Waves, and Salvo. From the heroic Chicamacomico Life-Saving Station to world-class kiteboarding, these Tri-Villages offer a soulful, wind-swept escape on the Outer Banks.
From Legendary Rock to Bluegrass Bliss: Why Point of the Bluff is Our Favorite 2026 Concert Destinat
By Jim Moore December 22, 2025
Experience world-class music at Point of the Bluff’s reclaimed-timber pavilion. With a stellar 2026 lineup and memories of Taj Mahal, we’re heading back for lakeside wine, food, and legendary tunes.
Forget the Tofu: The Secret
By Jim Moore December 19, 2025
Forget the Tofu: The Secret "Secret Ingredient" That Makes These Vegan Stuffed Shells a Creamy Masterpiece
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What We Do

Your Happy Guides to the Good Life

Travel

Adventures from the Finger Lakes of NY, down the east coast, across the US, and even out to sea.  Driving, flying, or sailing we love to travel and share. See Our Latest Adventure

Drink

From the fantastic wines, craft beers, and small batch spirits of the Finger Lakes to the artisan drinks of the places we visit.

Eat

We love to eat!  Though our  food preferences range from vegan to omnivore (and some variations in between) enjoying food is one of our favorite things to do.

Share It

What makes a great experience better?  Sharing stories about it!  We welcome you to share in our stories, recommendations, and comical misadventures.

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Who We Are


Your Happy Guides to the Good Life!  We each bring a unique and interesting perspective to our experiences and we are singular in our joy in sharing it all with you!

Jim

Alias: Jimmy
Quote: "I'll likely out live it"

Wine Preference: Full bodied, dry reds
Beer Preference: Bitter IPAs

Favorite Spirit:  Good Cognac
Favorite Food: Vegan Pizza

Favorite Place: Key West Fl


Bio: The oldest and yet least wise of the 4Fs, known for using too many words when talking and often volunteering as the designated driver on alcohol fueled adventures.


Kathy


Alias:
Quote:

Wine Preference: Dry White (with minimal/no oak!)
Beer Preference:
Bitter (and I mean bitter!) IPA

Favorite Spirit:  Beetlejuice! Just kidding – Roe & Co Irish Whiskey
Favorite Food:
I don’t think I have one. I guess it depends on my mood.

Favorite Place:  I love the Outer Banks, especially the Southern Villages.


Bio:  Jim and I have been married since 1984! We have 2 children and 3 grandchildren.


I retired from SUNY Geneseo in 2020 after 30 years. The last 20 were spent working with/advising students and were the most rewarding.


I drive a Mojito Jeep JLU, and I love it! Mostly a pavement princess, but we were able to move a downed tree to “rescue” some 4 wheelers blocked on a trail.

Kim

Alias: Kimmy
Quote:
Wine Preference:
Dry Whites
Beer Preference:  Dark Stout/Porter
Favorite Spirit: 
None
Favorite Food: Pizza. Italian
Favorite Place: Outbanks NC/ The Beach!


 I love to travel and especially hang out and drink wine with my friends. The 4 Fine Friends have been friends for so long we have great stories to tell! 


I am a Licensed Real Estate Salesperson and one of my favorite things to do is look at houses/properties in other places that we travel. 


I have been married to my husband, Perry for 28 years - the most important title to me is "Grandma" - we have 6 grandchildren who are the light of our lives. 

Perry

Alias: King
Quote:
"The greatest gift of life is friendship and I am thankful to have received it"
Wine Preference:
I'm with Jimmy, Full bodied, dry reds
Beer Preference:
Red Ales
Favorite Spirit: 
Bourbon
Favorite Food:
Italian
Favorite Place:
The beach anywhere


Bio- Hubby of Kim, father of two and Pop Pop of 6. The craziest and most daring palate of the Four Fine Friends who loves to explore new places, try new things and make new friends along the way.




Our Latest Most Favorite!


An impromptu visit to Kueka Vineyards on Keuka lake resulted an a happy opportunity to enjoy a one-on-one experience with Mel, the winery owner.  In addition to enjoying his wonderful wines he provided us with a tour of the winery's newly refinished summer tasting room in the restored barn.

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